Can an admin* tell me the nether rules?

[Epacity]

I asked Snowyfire through /msg if he wanted to go to the nether for glowstone and looting. <-- Epic way of telling him I'm going to slaughter him.
So I got some glowstone, saw snowy at the nether gate, killed him, and took his loot. Snowy started crying to me and called me a ---k ----ing ---k face. Nwalton logged in, and asked him if he could calm down snowy.
I guess walton came under the impression that I didn't tell him I was going to loot him. So, under walton's orders, I gave Snowyfire's loot back. (I'm not at all upset about that).

Mrepic had said that grieving was allowed in the nether, so I assumed it was anarchy.

So could I have an admins say on these nether rules? As it seems the moderators have mixed ideas of certain rules.

Heck, Walton now thinks I'm a thief.

<nwalton>: just give him back the stuff that you stole
<Epacity>: Fought for*
<nwalton>: Epacity stole for*

[Doozy]

Well.. I wasn't aware the nether was a pvp zone. If I were snowy, I'd be feeling pretty badly treated too.

[Epacity]

You didn't!? Woah
I didn't really mistreat him, I thought he knew that PvP was on. As that is old news.

[MrEpiclegendzz]

i figured that nether pvp is the same as normal pvp

[Epacity]

Yes, so do I, and I believe you are correct, epic. I think walton just has his rules wrong in this one. and BTW I made this post for future reference so I can know what is and isn't allowed. I don't want to break the rules

[rbos]

Having pvp enabled in nether is probably an oversight. I'll flag it off. As an adjunct to the normal world, normal rules now apply.

No griefing or assholery.

[Epacity]

Alright, but just wanted some sneaky fights.
Not being obnoxious.

[Gubble1234]

I do think if you are wanting a fight, you should tell them that... I know I was most unamused when Adstro decided to do that to me!